1 Corinthians 4:1-5; Matthew 6:24-34“The Art of Worry”I imagine a lot of us worry from time to time about getting old or, having gotten old, about what lies around the corner. We would like to be young again, but that’s not really possible physically, is it? However Comedian George Carlin has some good advice for those who would like to maintain a ‘young’ attitude and outlook on things; he says:
1. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle.
2. Enjoy the simple things.
3. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.
4. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.
5. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. And tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.
We would all benefit from his advice, wouldn’t we? If we could just do some of those things, we would be better off. But there’s other things besides our attitude that enters into the equation here.
Have you ever thought about how the foods you eat could possibly affect your health or even your life expectancy? There seems to be something in the news all the time about what we should eat and what we might leave alone? With all those reports do you ever worry about whether you’re eating the right things or not? Maybe just a little? If so, then listen to these statistics before worrying any further. Perhaps another question we should ask is, does it really make any difference?
One report revealed the following:
The Japanese eat very little fat and suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans.
The French eat a lot of fat and also suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans.
The Japanese drink very little red wine and suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans.
The Italians drink excessive amounts of red wine and also suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans.
The Germans drink a lot of beer and eat lots of sausages and fats and suffer fewer heart attacks than the British or Americans.
The conclusion would seem to be then: Don’t worry about what you eat and drink… it’s speaking English that kills you.
And if you like to get rid of more things to worry about, visit The Worry Bank at www.worrybank.com. At The Worry Bank you can make regular worry deposits. The site says: “Everyone worries. How much time do you spend worrying? Most things we worry about don’t happen. But we still spend time and energy worrying about them. Do you ever wish someone else could do your worrying for you? Deposit your worries at The Worry Bank.” I guess that’s one option, but the apostle Paul has a better one.
He tells the church at Corinth that when it comes to determining if we’re doing the right thing, to “leave it up to God.” Oh, not in those exact words, but isn’t that the jest of what he’s saying? He does say, “I don’t judge myself… The Lord is my judge.” So if it comes down to ‘worrying’ about whether we’re living up to our charge as followers of Christ, Paul says, “Don’t.”
No doubt Paul is quite familiar with what Jesus told his followers as recorded in Matthew: “Don't worry about tomorrow. It will take care of itself. You have enough to worry about today.” And when he tells them, “Don’t worry about life.” what he is really saying is don’t worry about your life as a disciple. Whatever is needed, food to eat, something to drink, clothes to wear – whatever – it will all be taken care of. “The Father in heaven takes care (of the birds), why not you.”
What good does it do to worry, he asks. Is your faith so small you can’t trust God? Birds rely on God; Flowers rely on God; and so should we. That’s really what is important in life – not our toiling or our spinning – not what we do. Believe and trust in God. That’s what Jesus would have us substitute for worry - trusting God. We don’t have to worry about how life is going to turn out.
Still there may be a few doubts or questions, an objection or two, that makes it hard for us to go along with Jesus on this. We aren’t always worrying about life-threatening things like global warming or the world running out of oil. And most of us don’t dwell on the question of how or when the world will end.
No, most of the time our concerns are about issues like “Will I get a good report from the doctor?” or “Will my kids stay out of trouble?” or “Am I being a good parent?” or “Will I be able to pay my bills if my job goes ‘south’?” We’re not worrying all the time, just now and then.
Besides, everybody worries from time to time; it’s a good thing. We shouldn’t feel guilty about something we all do. It’s who we are as human beings, right? Besides sometimes it causes us to change what we do for our own good, especially when it might concern our health. We shouldn’t feel guilty about that, should we?
And if you really think about it, what Jesus says is too logical. He says, “Since you trust God, everything is going to work out for the good, and since you believe God cares for you even more than the birds and flowers (and God takes care of them), you needn’t worry then about anything.” Yeah, right.
Most of us just don’t buy it. It doesn’t make any sense, the way we see it, not to worry. We can’t talk ourselves out of it. And even though we’re told not to, we worry anyway. Some of us have even made worrying an art. Our head is filled with voices saying, “This may not work out, things might not happen like I planned, so and so could ‘drop the ball’, maybe there’s something I haven’t thought of, whatever can go wrong probably will.” Our minds can process those ‘what ifs’ over and over and over again, causing us to worry even more, which of course makes a person even more anxious.
So hearing “not to worry” is one thing, doing it is something else.
But folks, that’s not really the point. We may have missed what Jesus is really talking about in this passage. His main point is this: “Do your best to be close to God, and everything else will fall into place.” That’s what we should be doing - actively working for that closeness to God - and then some of the things we worry about are going to become non-issues because we’ve got more important things to be concerned with.
Oh, we’ll still worry about things now and then. It’s hard not to when you love someone or are sensitive to others or concerned about the world. But it will be nothing like before. Because when we focus on our relationship with God there will be no worry at all; we’ll be able to relax and trust in God’s care.
Remember earlier I said, “Don’t worry about what you eat and drink… it’s speaking English that kills you.” Well it isn’t speaking a language other than English that gives us reason not to worry, what gives us reason not to worry is trusting God.